I have never seen a grave stone that said “He worked a lot”
I’ve looked, too! I searched google for an image using those words and other variations and found nothing. Not even as a joke, I guess it’s not funny.
I hear stories all the time about people that retire and start to lose their ability to live life due to illness or medical conditions. We hear it all that time! It’s a reminder that we need to live life as we age, not when we age.
I own a business. As soon as I found people that can work for me without me standing over them I started taking weekends off to be with my family. It took almost 2 years but it was my goal. There are weekends I might have to work here and there but the gist of it is, I take time for what is important to me.
I realize not everyone can just take weekends off. But, we can find what’s important to us, your calling in life, and do it. If working is more important to you then do it. If spending quality time with your family is, then do it. If walking your dog is, then do it! It’s about the everyday life and what you make of it. It’s not about working your ass off every day so you can retire, you may not even make it to retirement. Show up for your life!
As we age, different things become more important to us. Each era of our lives creates a different story. For example, in my 20’s it was about relationships and getting married, in my 30’s children and family, my 40’s is family, school and work. I try hard to balance it all. But, for me throughout my life family has always been important to me.
I don’t get to see my brothers much since Dad passed away. Monday, my younger brother came by my shop with dinner. He brought Columbian Empanadas from a place he seen me check in on Facebook at. He knew I liked it and wanted to try it himself. I was beside the moon that he wanted to spend that time with me and made the time to come see me. I need to initiate those meet ups more myself.
When a friend asks me out to lunch, when my son tells me he loves me without me saying it first, when a neighbor asks us to dinner, the random text just asking how I am, a sincere display of love, feeling needed and loved…those are the things that are important to me, today.
What is the most important thing in your life right now?